Sex Position of the Month: Standing Sex for Tight Places

As human beings, we are sexual by nature. Yet sometimes, we find ourselves bored with our sex lives. But there are various ways to overcome dullness during your bedroom fun. A fun and challenging way to up the ante during sexy time with a partner is through the exploration of sex positions. While the basics may be an oldie but goody, it's always interesting to switch up the positions and the places. If you're adventurous or have fantasized about sex in public places because it turns you on with the idea of getting caught; then, these standing sex positions will help you live out your sexual fantasies. So, to help you become more daring in your sex positions, Lala provides you with four of her favorite sex positions that are perfect for small spaces and hidden places.  

The Dancer Sex Position

The Dancer is a great sex position that couples find intimate and sexy. The Dancer sex position allows you and your partner to share a lot of eye-to-eye contact while engaging in sexual activity if you're of similar heights. It's also a position that allows for a lot of skin-to-skin contact, and you and your partner will find it highly satisfying if one or both of you enjoy physical touch to show love. While this sex position is oh so sexy, it can be pretty complicated if you aren't used to having sex in standing positions. Also, it's beneficial in this position if the receiving partner has excellent flexibility.

How To Best Perform This Position:

The best way to perform this position is by both partners facing one another. The receiving partner will lift their leg at a ninety-degree angle and place it around their partner's waist, if possible. An alternative leg positioning for this sex position is for the penetrating partner to hold the receiving partner's leg at their waist. For proper support in this position, the penetrating partner will need to hold a firm grip on the receiving partner's hip or buttocks and one hand beneath the thigh of their bent leg. The penetrative partner will need to bend their needs to be able to enter into the receiving partner and vertically thrust into them for the most heightened sexual pleasure. This position might be pretty challenging to hold for a long time, so to make the sex last longer in this sex position, the receiving partner can change legs and make sure that their foot is fully planted on the ground.  

Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

The penetrating partner will be responsible for all thrusting and has all of the control in this standing sex position. Therefore, the receiving partner should focus on giving the penetrating partner a show by grinding their hips, passionate kissing, stimulating the ears, neck, and shoulder erogenous zones with your tongue, and rubbing along their shoulders and back. The Dancer sex position is an excellent position for the penetrating partner to perform anal fingering or erotic spanking. This is an ideal position for shower sex, closets, or dressing rooms. For more support in this position, use a wall for stability while engaging in sexual activity.

The Piston Sex Position

The Piston sex position is hot and sexy if you and your partner are in a crunch for time. This is one of the best positions for quickie sex that will get you to climax in record time. The Piston sex position allows for extremely deep penetrative sex. This sex position is one of the most difficult standing sex positions because the penetrative partner has to have the ability to hold you up on their hips while they thrust into the receiving partner. While challenging, this is a highly intimate position that can be performed anywhere that you all can stand up while having sex. The Piston is a very sensual sex position that allows the receiving partner to intimately touch their partner on their back, chest, or shoulders. Also, this position allows for kissing and tonguing along upper body erogenous zones that will heighten partner play during sexy time.

How To Best Perform This Position:

The best way to perform the Piston is by standing face to face with your partner. For better support, allow the penetrating partner to stand with their back against a wall, chair, or couch. This will enable them for more stability while thrusting in this sex position. The penetrating partner will lift the receiving partner onto their penis, dildo, or strap-on. Next, the receiving partner will wrap their legs around the penetrating partner's hips for stability. Once you and your partner feel like you all are in a secure and comfortable position, they should begin thrusting into your vagina or anus. This sex position isn't a position that intimate partners can hold for a long time because it requires a lot of arm strength on the penetrating partner's part and leg strength on the receiving partner's end.

Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

To make the Piston position more comfortable, find a place where the receiving partner can leverage their feet on a solid surface to allow the position to last longer. Focus on getting as deep as possible while having sex in this position to heighten the orgasm. Also, this is a position you can have any place you can stand, so try it in a small and hidden space. Give your partner a show by being vocal during the experience and enjoying lots and lots of eye contact and kissing while performing the Piston sex position.

The Prison Guard Sex Position

The Prison Guard sex position is a great standing sex position for those that enjoy being restrained and in a submissive position during sexual intercourse. This sex position is great for those who want to engage in vaginal or anal penetration while having standing sex. Also, this is one of the most straightforward standing sex positions to utilize, especially if you're looking for an introductory standing sex position. Then, definitely give the Prison Guard a test spin. This is a great sexual position to stimulate a vaginal and vulva owner's G-Spot or anyone's prostate or P-spot.

 How To Best Perform This Position:

The receiving partner will stand with their back to the penetrating partner. Next, the receiving partner will bend over from the waist and bring their hands behind their back. The penetrating partner will grasp the receiving partner's hands behind their back like handcuffs and then begin to thrust vaginally or anally into the receiving partner.

 Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

This is a hot position to do in a closet or bathroom at a gathering for some hot sex or with consent; this is potentially an alluring position for the penetrating partner to surprise you with in the middle of any room of the house. Another way to make this position more enjoyable is using scarves or handcuffs to bind the receiving partner's hands during sexy time.

The Standing Wheelbarrow Sex Position

The Standing Wheelbarrow sex position is tough, yet it's a highly erotic position for sexy time. This position requires both partners to have extreme strength to hold this position during sexual intercourse. The Standing Wheelbarrow sex position is fantastic for those who enjoy deep penetration from this doggy-style variation.

How To Best Perform This Position:

The receiving partner will get on all fours with their back to the penetrating partner with their ankles positioned outside their legs. The penetrating partner will need to stand with their legs shoulder-width apart. The penetrating partner will then pick up the receiving partner by the waist, wrapping their legs around the penetrating partner's hips. The penetrating partner will need to line up their hips with the receiver to make sure that you all are in a comfortable position for them to enter you for penetration. Once positioned in the best position, the penetrating partner will begin to thrust.

Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

The Standing Wheelbarrow is an excellent position if you and your partner enjoy using sex swings. Try the Standing Wheelbarrow in a spot with a generous amount of space. This position can start in the classic doggy style and then move into the Standing Wheelbarrow sex position so that the sex will last longer. Also, to make this sex position more comfortable for the receiving partner, be sure to do this on a carpet or rug.

Sex doesn’t ever have to be boring so, make sure it’s always enjoyable! All It takes is simple modifications, tricks, and tips to keep the sex hot! Subscribe to Lala’s Bedtime Tales Newsletter and follow @LalasBedtimeTales on social media for sex tips and tricks to spice up your sex life! Also, check out Lala's Bedtime Tales Podcast and Lala's Oh So Exclusive Patreon account for even more content! If you’re browsing for sexy pleasure products or cute giftable items, then check out Lala’s Pleasure Shop.

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