Sex Position of the Month: Best Sex Moves for Curvy Lovers

January's sex positions of the month are hot sex positions for vulva-owners that are larger, plus size, and curvier! January is self-love month, and Lala wants you to have the confidence and body positivity needed to enjoy your sexuality! Your size should not deter you from engaging in sexual activities that will provide you with the most sexual enjoyment and pleasure. Simple modifications to some of the most popular sex positions will give you the best sex of your life, no matter your size. Therefore, Lala provides you with four of her favorite sex positions that will have you feeling sexy, confident, and like a goddess in the bedroom!  

The Curvy Partner's Guide to Cowgirl Sex

Seated positions are among the best and most comfortable positions for curvy partners. Many vulva owners, regardless of their shape, size, or body confidence, tend to shy away from being on top of their partner(s) during sexual intercourse. But this position is sexy, fun, and intimate, and it gives the receiving partner majority of the control over the sexual act. The cowgirl sex position is the most favorable position for many women because it's the best sex position to get a vulva owner to orgasm. Cowgirl is a sex position for curvy lovers that's guaranteed to send you into an orgasm so amazing that you literally feel as if you died and went to heaven! For seated sex positions like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, have the penetrating partner sit on a sturdy chair or couch. You can choose based on comfortability whether to face your partner or not in a seated position.  

How To Best Perform This Position:

The penetrating partner sits in a solid chair or sofa or lays down on the bed, and the receiving partner straddles their pelvis. The receiving partner will need to position their legs on both sides of the penetrator and rest their weight on their knees. If the penetrator is in an upright seated position, then their knees being bent will help better support the receiving partner while engaging in this position. Once in a comfortable position, the receiving partner will lower themselves onto the penis, dildo, or strap-on and set the rhythm and pace of the thrusting.

Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

If the receiving partner is a vulva owner, leaning forward will provide better clitoral stimulation than sitting up straight. If you need more stability and comfort in the cowgirl position, then maneuvering into reverse cowgirl might be better. Reverse cowgirl allows you more stability and support because you're able to lean on your palms for additional leverage. Another excellent tool for comfortability in this position is adding pillows or blankets to support the knees of the receiver so it'll be easier to perform. To kick the position up a notch, if the receiving partner is a vulva owner, then have the penetrating partner run a vibrator along the clitoris to help increase the strength and possibility of orgasm. The receiving partner shouldn't be afraid to play with the depth of penetration, angle, or speed to see what best works for them to get that big "O" we all want to experience during sex! Also, this is a great sex position for intimacy so, make sure to kiss, stroke, eye gaze, and touch each other for added sexual pleasure and enjoyment.

The Modified Ballerina for the Plus Size Partner

If you're a flexible vulva owner that enjoys sex in a standing position, then the modified ballerina is the perfect position for you as a plus-size diva. The modified ballerina is a more challenging standing sex position regardless of shape or size. The hardest part of this sex position is the ability for the receiving partner to raise their leg high enough to get in a comfortable position for the penetrating partner to position their penis, the dildo, or strap-on for the best angle of penetration. The modified ballerina is an excellent position for a plus-size partner. The receiving partner can lean onto their elbows on a countertop or table for more stability and access during sexual activity. Leaning on a hard flat surface allows for more sexual pleasure and enjoyment in this position than standing straight up. While this is a fun and great position for deep penetration, it's not a position that most people can hold for an extended time, so think about doing it for a few minutes, then switching into doggy style or missionary.

How To Best Perform This Position:

In modified ballerina, the receiving partner will face away from the penetrating partner and lean down on one elbow on a solid surface instead of facing one another. The receiver will need to lift one of their legs up in a fire hydrant or an L-shaped position and wrap it around the penetrating partner's waist. If the penetrating partner is a plus-size partner, as well, then they can hold onto the receiving partner's thigh for support and ease of entry. Once both partners are comfortable, the penetrating partner will support the receiving partner's leg and hip while thrusting. In this position, the receiving partner is immobile, so the majority of the movement and penetration is the sole responsibility of the penetrator.  

Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

The modified ballerina is a great position to hit the G-spot of a vulva owner. Therefore, if the receiving partner has a vulva, make sure you thrust deep enough to stroke their G-spot with a penis, strap-on, or dildo. To make this position hotter then do it in a public place or space! It's the perfect position for a secret rendezvous in a bathroom up against the sink during a party or social gathering or even the dressing room of a department store to spice up your sex life. This is a hot and erotic position for the penetrator, so the receiver should be vocal about their enjoyment to help put on a show for their partner and act engaged while holding this tricky sex position.

Sex from Behind for the Queen Size Goddess

Doggy style is an excellent and satisfying sex position for larger partners because it keeps the stomach out of the way during sexual intercourse. This is also a great position if you have a large butt because you can angle your body in the best way to break the barrier that these larger body parts may cause during penetrative sex. This is a great position for curvier partners because you can easily modify you and your partner's positioning to have comfortable and great sex!

 How To Best Perform This Position:

The receiving partner needs to either stand leaning over a flat, sturdy surface with their hips pushed out and legs spread or lay on a bed on all fours for the best positioning for doggy style. To make it easier, if the receiving partner is curvy, the penetrating partner stands behind the receiver, even if they are positioned on all fours on the bed. This will allow the receiving partner more ability to adjust their height by bringing their knees closer together or far apart. Once the receiving partner finds a comfortable position and supports their weight equally on their palms and knees or feet, the penetrating partner can enter them and set the pace and rhythm of sexual intercourse.

 Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

To make doggy style more enjoyable, use a wedge pillow under the receiver's stomach if the receiver is lying down. A wedge or sex pillow will take some of the pressure off the receiving partner's knees and make for a softer landing if you're engaging in rough sex. Also, this is an excellent position for deep penetration to stimulate the receiving partner's G-spot if they are a vulva owner. Another way to make doggy style more fun is to have the receiving partner use a sex toy on their clitoris or their fingers if they are a vulva owner. The doggy-style sex position is great for a vulva owner to experience mixed orgasms to heighten their sexual pleasure during penetrative sex.

Scissors Sex for the Sexy Voluptuous Lover

Scissors sex position is a modification of sideways sex that opens up space between the partners and doesn't allow for the stomach, thick thighs, or a voluptuous bottom to get in the way during sexual intercourse. This is an excellent position for a curvy lover because it lets them lay comfortably on their side on the bed with no discomfort or pressure on their back. This is on many people's “Must-Try” sex position list because it's easy to accomplish yet an erotic sex position! Also, it's a hot and sexy twist on the classic spooning sideways sex position.

How To Best Perform This Position:

The penetrating partner lays on their side on a bed and lifts one of their legs so that their legs are wide open and spread apart. The receiving partner then lies on their back or side perpendicular to the penetrator. The receiver straddles the leg that the penetrating partner has lifted so that their groins are pressed against one another. Once comfortably in this position, the penetrating partner can enter into the receiving partner and set the pace and rhythm of the thrusting.

Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:

To make the scissor sex position most comfortable, add pillows for extra support and comfort where needed. This is an excellent position for G-spot and clitoral stimulation so, don't be afraid to use toys, fingers, and deep thrust to get the most sexual pleasure out of the scissors sex position. Also, this is an extremely intimate position so, let yourself go and really get into the sex while in this position, putting on a show for one another to increase the fun, excitement, and intimacy of penetrative sex.

Sex doesn’t ever have to be boring so, make sure it’s always enjoyable! All It takes is simple modifications, tricks, and tips to keep the sex hot! Subscribe to Lala’s Bedtime Tales Newsletter and follow @LalasBedtimeTales on social media for sex tips and tricks to spice up your sex life! Also, check out Lala's Bedtime Tales Podcast and Lala's Oh So Exclusive Patreon account for even more content! If you’re browsing for sexy pleasure products or cute giftable items, then check out Lala’s Pleasure Shop.

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